"My love affair with you It’s over, it’s through. We loved and then we lost and though we came at quite a cost we’ve both had the chance to grow. I’ve collected my thoughts and once before I go there’s just one thing I want you to know…
I wanna punch you in the face. Stab you with a sword.I hope you lose all your hair, get eaten by a bear, strangle yourself with a telephone cord.
Lean out a window a little too far, don’t look both was and get hit by a car. Choke on a Now And Later, get your shoelaces caught in an escalator:
In short
I hope you die" (In Short from Edges)
I know this quote is a bit long, but I thought it summed up the relationship between Dido and Aeneas perfectly. They had a very brief love affair and then Aeneas drops the "It's not you, its the gods" bomb on her and gets out of town as fast as he is capable of getting.
Dido in essence says, In short, I hope you die, only her limerick sings more like: I hope your boat crashes while your out at sea, and while you are drowning your thinking of me. I built a great town and saw its great walls, I was happy until you loved and left without just cause. If I cannot have you then I wish bad omens to fall; in short, I hope you die.
Dido, after singing her little diddy, proceeds to off herself in the most dramatic way possible. It was debated in class weather or not this was a just and honor redeeming death, but in the end Dido was a consenting individual, and even though her kingdom might have been lost to her, if death was the only honorable option left to her was she really doing much ruling at the time in the first place?
Dido over all seemed like a rather selfish character to me. After she (kind of) gets her wish and Aeneas finds her in the underworld, she proceeds to ignore him. Why? Perhaps it is like the song says: "Maybe it’s wrong to wish death on someone you had so much love for. But since we shared so much, it makes me want to kill you more." But if it was merely love motivating her, why would she ignore him in the underworld? In short...Dido is a rather contrary witch. She loves a man for a week, kills herself over his loss, and then refuses to acknowledge his presence when he finds her in the underworld? Most of the class seems to feel sympathy for her...but I just can't see it.
Dido wishes death on Aeneas claiming she was dieing unavenged. But in the end, she killed herself..and I cannot see any reason for vengeance to be invoked for suicide.
P.S.-I posted on Sara Dye's blog Carpe Diem
I found it so interesting how similar this situation is to relationship drama among high school Christians. (There I go on high school again. It was not a good time in my life) There's obviously the whole "it's not me it's God" thing.
ReplyDeleteBut anyways, I think I actually agree on the issue of Dido. If it was true love that caused her to kill herself over the loss of him then she should have been eager to be with him when he visited the underworld. But if it wasn't then why did she kill herself in the first place. It seems to me that she is a very confused young lady longing for attention. Once again, welcome to high school.
EXACTLY!
ReplyDeleteI've had the same issue with Dido (plus she just has a funny name). They say "true love never dies" but apparently in her case it did. Correct me if I'm wrong, but in the underworld, wasn't she with her old husband? I suppose you could say that was her "true love" and she was with him again. But in that case, she was wrong for killing herself over another guy. Why didn't she when the first husband died? haha Who knows.
But if she didn't, then Purcell wouldn't have been able to write his opera "Dido's Lament" and Lane and I wouldn't be studying it in Music Appreciation.....Wait that might be a good thing. Dang it! haha
Maybe Dido was so mad because she had to spend an eternity with her old husband... haha
ReplyDeleteAll the singing in this blog, and the fact that Dido reminds me of a silly George County High School girl, makes me think... HIGH SCHOOL GREEK MUSICAL! Well by gosh. ;)
But seriously, women can have grudges like... something that has really bad grudges. And, if sister friend killed herself after this mug, cause he dumped her THEN had to spend an eternity with her OLD husband, I'm just thinking- not a happy camper.